I have family but they can care less about me and my son. But I can tell you this: we just wanna feel a little less scared than we already are and even though that’s hard to do, I think you just gotta push your son to get out of his confort zone by going places with friends or even just alone, just so that he doesn’t end up not wanting to leave his bed anymore. So, I try to balance it out. English is not my first language so I don’t know what else to say. I even tried dance for a couple of months but ended up giving it up because i only had one friend there, and was convinced no one wanted me there. But inside my own head I start to get anxiety and these thoughts go. I am very alone I don’t know?It hurts me from inside and I am really very upset.I don’t know wat to do?don’t feel like I am for did world.I use to cry daily n no 1 is there for me to stop.once I had friends but now nobody is there.what to do? You say you have ‘recently’ moved … Where are you originally from? I am lonely isolated and depressed. I have been told by various people that i have ”low-self esteem” which i know, it’s worse than that, it’s severe loneliness and depression. Went to therapy and when I talked about It they put me on medication and I had a nervous breakdown. Reply I have bought gifts for many occasions such as fathers and mothers day, birthdays, Christmas and just to treat myself. I’ve always feel like I make wrong choices… I try socializing, but I also feel I never do it right! I know it’s hard but, hey, here you have someone who associates with you, feels your pain. Very good service and clothing. I know, I feel the same. We are one. Yep. I have a sibling who has more serious psychological problems than I do, so my mother already has too much on her plate. Reply If you were neglected, you may experience being ignored or excluded. She had developed a blood clot in her leg that escaped many doctors. Would recommend. Joe March 16th, 2016 But we need to own and claim this truth for ourselves. Take care So why waste my life away feeling sorry for myself? thank you for reading this post for whoever did and yeah… BYE! For anyone who thinks they’d benefit from getting listened and understood by trained volunteers, here it is! I am really extrovert, motivated and alive. Mine April 26th, 2017 Just me March 30th, 2014 Best Wishes, Dawson January 31st, 2014 Yes, just one friend like you, Joe, would be one of life’s biggest blessings. Eventually it will happen though, I try an remain optimistic. i think that joining the army will make my parents proud of me, my fmaily proud of me.im a drop out, i got my ged but i dont think thats good enough. It was unfair for me. SAME HERE AND IT KILLS ME DAILY. Before I lived with my 2 brothers, my uncle, and grandpa. Reply I feel even bad for the ppl that hang on at my side , deep on me I know they will go someday. I want a friend like you, Joe. Great Message. Jen December 20th, 2013 I have people that want to connect with me and want to see me and be around me. I also realized that when I don’t call, nobody will take the initiative to call me. This website can help you locate a therapist internationally: http://www.therapistlocator.net/ You could also email [email protected] if you are feeling depressed and need someone to talk to. Anyway, I have found myself 62 now, and live alone in my own flat in this village that I moved to 7 years ago. 11/10 couldn't recommend more. I am a mum of 3 with a lovely husband who is as understanding as is possible yet I feel so isolated and that I have no place in the world, it’s like a desperate longing to feel I am worth something – not as a mother or a partner or lover but as my own unique self.. Never had any problems with any orders and everything has always been excellent quality that’s lasted years! so do I feel isolated and alone yeah I do. Pranav August 18th, 2019 Talk bout being lonely and alone i have been for quit sometime. Been buying from LKC online for years now. I am also on an exchange and experiencing strong feelings of isolation and like nobody is ‘on my level’.. Just now I watched a video that started making me ball my eyes out (it was about a guy who lost his wife after 70-odd years) and that just triggered a whole lot more crying, proper chest heaving/aching stuff. God bells .. Since I am mainly the only one that takes them my fingerprints were the only one they had my daughter works alot and is hardly ever off on sundays. Reply I feel very much the same way, i keep hoping i will find people like you have discribed. I am jealous when I am going about my business and see happy couples making out, holding hands and I’m alone, it’s the worst feeling in the world and I feel worthless, unattractive everything. Take care and stay happy! It’s a blessing if you are so responsible and strong at only 16 years old. I’m not sure if there’s something wrong about me. I cant stand to be away from my apaprtment for too long i dont feel safe and i feel out of place everywhere elses. wayne July 10th, 2014 Great products, great service and true commitment to philanthropy. But, like many if you, there are times when there are only feelings of emptiness, loneliness , and depression. I study the Tao to get wonderful perspective, yet alas I stilll yearn to share life with someone. I am finding it to be more lonely as I get older. Which is interesting, cause I'm a boring person. John i have felted that way my whole life and i am 46 now and still feel that way. I can live in my back yard looking at the stars, or sitting on my sofa reading a novel. Eastern Caribbean dollar (EC$); US dollars widely accepted. And Warwick is an absolute legend!!. I immediately feel guilty and start beating myself up at the same time I fight with that inner critic. I find myself lonely and isolated quite frequently. And we can b what we want, so just accept and be happy, don’t expect. i have isolated myself for almost three yrs now. We’ve known each other since 2009 and have only been out on ONE date. Still that voice is telling me that I may not have enough strength to overcome it…. When we feel isolated and alone, we often turn against ourselves, which makes it difficult to reach out and break the pattern of loneliness. Those kind of things may feel awkward at first, but generally boosts your self image and confidence after a little while! But…..each day we are given the gift of life and I think that is what the old people you refer to understand. Hey everybody, man i was lonely when i came on here, then i read everyone’s comments, now i feel like ur all my friends and I’m happy with that, love wayne, not straight. Lonely Kids Club isn't just a brand, it's a beautiful community full of supportive and uplifting vibes . as I found this article at this web site. I feel super sad right now… I really want someone to talk to, and to love. Forging friendships was a remote possibility since I could not invite friends over to my house. I started cutting myself out of boredom. We hope that you remain safe and continue to reach out. and mass ignorance are not an enemy of the psychiatric establishment rather they are the means in which they keep their positions of power and control over the individual. After 5 years, I still don’t have a kid although I was the first one among my friends to get married. All the best. But as of now I have lost interest in things I love. I took break from studies, gym,art. You are not alone. Let me say this quickly…that empty house, not so empty anymore, that empty lonely life, not so empty anymore once one has a relationship with God. I’m disable and on low income and can barely help myself. If it weren’t for my daughter, I wouldn’t have any interaction with anyone during the day. Really tasty cool designs. I isolate and end up more depressed than I was before. Where would you rather raise a family? I had an eating disorder (bulimia) in varying degrees of severity (sometimes not for a couple months, but I would be taking a lot of drugs) for 5 years, but that ended about 18months ago. I have no religion, so I will keep my views to my self in that regard. Love this shop and I can't get enough of them! But the thought of her living with another guy and making a family would kill me. Also I think this method worked wonders for me. It’s comforting to see other people going through the same thing. Hi i have been reading all the comments on this site. I’m an introvert… I don’t like mornings… Boredom kills me. You will surely find people who will love uoy and cherish you. bella November 14th, 2018 Reply Nicely stated Sir. I think Joe below is right when he says its harder than ever to connect with people, to even like them anymore! On the other hand, I may only be fooling myself. Reply I wasn’t saying that others do not have loneliness, what am I am trying to express is that loneliness is qualitatively different depending on the person. I’m sure a mother would welcome a few hours of peace & quiet. But then in the real world, when things get hard, they fall apart and fail. I often feel lonely when I see happy couples who look happy, or happy couples making out and the voices start going off in my head about how i am considered fat, unattractive and how ill be single and alone my whole life. However, at home I used to be a very naughty and fun-loving kid, popular with all of my 27 cousins. I reached out, but it seems that all of my friendships fell out.. it is tiring always reachingout for something that will fail anyway.. i have isolated myself for almost three yrs now. Linda omg I feel just the way you do. Love it all and I'm very happy they've brought in chinos as clothing options. And I want you to know that god or the universe or what have you wouldn’t have me wanting to reach back to you so badly if you weren’t likable. I’ve waited too long to apologize, and it seems it cost me my friends… However I also think… Were they even my friends in th fist place!? I’ve tried to connect with new people but I don’t have anything to talk about and it doesn’t last. Sometimes the good people in our lives don’t find us…we find them! Little by little everything is slipping away from me. I went on to college and earned a bachelor’s degree in Health science and was admitted to a master’s program in an IV league university. This is such a sweet remark James! Am I the only one feeling like this? Hey! Stay at Home Mum March 8th, 2015 And there are many of us Good men out there which i am sure many of you will certainly agree with me that we Would’ve wanted that as well. If anyone is out there, could you please give me some advice? As for me, i’m still unemployed, single and socially awkward. It’s a ‘long’ story, everyone as heard that before, I know so I’ll save you by cutting it short. Books give kids an opportunity to experience something in their imaginations before it happens to them in real life. But as of now I have lost interest in things I love. I love seeing support for local artists in the shirt designs! I've been shopping from you guys for years and have not once been disappointed. Fred West July 22nd, 2014 That what I’m going thru will make me stronger for wat will come. Evidently I look young for my age and attractive…just seen as a younger looking woman on these men arms. Great site. I was even an excellent wife. My worst fear came true I always said I didn’t want to end up being single & living alone the rest of my life but like my mom but here I am. It helps me suppress my urge to want something, and cry because of some food I want to eat that I will never get (for example). I have been so blessed. I am 26, tall and told I’m very handsome even that’s should model as well as I have light brown hair, clean shaven and I exercise, go to the gym and run and I am a vegetarian. Jack H March 16th, 2016 Hi, I even dont know why Im putting this comment right now, Im a guy, 28 years old, feeling terribly isolated all my life, i had girlfrind , i had sex , but each year i feel Im more hated and more separated from society, All i do everyday is just working out and making music … Poof I dont know how to enjoy life, life is so dark for me , is it gonna be like this ever? I for example have felt very lonely for years despite having a family and kids. As I got to my final year in high school, I was abused by my dads friend and my mom had come to school to also call me a prostitute because my step mom made everyone believe I was sleeping around and my mom fell for that. The online purchase was dispatched in a timely manner , with postal tracking available and the product arrived on the specified date. I have one grown child and she is my only family. Great ethical enterprise with even better clothes! I feel especially bad tonight because I’ve been hating on myself, in fear I’ve put on weight and am going to put on more – I find it so hard to motivate myself to exercise though (and I’m an incredibly chronic procrastinator. Reply Worst comes to worst, I will just become my own very best friend. In my good moments, I look around and try to acknowledge somebody more “ordinary” – e.g., NOT the prettiest woman in the room, or the coolest man. I’m in the military and have felt like this for 3-4 years. Like Dawson and all of us, baby steps. I hope this makes sense :/ It is horrible……and I feel like i have painted myself into a corner. I am a believer but still it’s hard. People would never assume I had these thoughts of inadequacy and depression and thoughts of suicide, because on the outside I present a happy go lucky, confident attractive guy, but on the inside I feel lonely, depressed and some times like what’s the point in me living. Your feeling almost same like what I am having. Reply No i feel the same way my kids grew up left me alone i dont know what happiness is anymore i just live get thru the day and wait next day what i face 56 years old alone and scared my kids want me be there for them where are they god bless hope this all will pass.. Doesn’t have to be all the time. Please do not do anything to hurt yourself. We just had went down there to visit for the holiday but I felt like I’m still alone there and don’t really belong just a bother. I only have so much interest (but it is definitely there!) Kiara July 27th, 2016 Both my children have now left home for some years my son is at uni, and my daughter live abroard. I have been to school counselling but they are no good, and do not help at all, i’ve been to the doctors but only got told i had ”anxiety” which is caused by stress and depression and been transferred to CAMHS but i have to catch a bus, and couldn’t get there, so now i’m stuck. I hope things will get better . That would be unfair burden. i keep evaluating myself, but always end up alone… nothing has changed. Listen it’s a different society out there now. I am 26, living with my parents because I can’t find a job, really want a girlfriend, and have friends but they are mostly friends from hs and we only get together a few times a year, I have one acquaintance from my church but other than that I feel alone. My family is 4 hrs south of here but not really too involved in my life. High quality fabric, excellent customer service and the designs is super cute. Still, the relationships might seem rather shallow. Human beings are instinctively social animals. I have been spending years in therapy, but I don’t see an end to my plight. Now I’m 16. Instead we would be so engrossed that we would be in a state of flow that time will pass by so fast without us noticing it. I lost myself for quite some time, and decided to try finding myself. Yet I never seen that I was always so timid and never felt good enough. How to correct them? dont get me wrong, am greatful because his a hardworking man. afraid of what life ahead has waiting for me. It’s easy to say when you’re lonely, hang out with friends. so my goal is to finish basic training and make my family proud and maybe some day find a girl that willl love me and i would love her…but being socialy awkward makes it tough. I feel the same and I blame myself or the cultural differences. I never had much to start with and my circle has only gotten smaller. I am my life is no good . The only time i leave my small apartment is to go to dr appointments and too church. 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